Coaching Team Culture and Confidence at the Philadelphia Coaches Conference
This week, I traveled to Philadelphia for the Philadelphia Coaches Conference at Temple University. I was excited for the opportunity to learn and present alongside so many passionate coaches. Most of the attendees were youth sports coaches from the Philadelphia area, along with a few local college coaches. The keynote speaker was K.C. Keeler, Temple’s […]
Rethinking End-of-Season Awards
Traditionally, teams at every level celebrate the end of a season by recognizing individuals. Awards like Most Valuable Player, Most Improved, Leadership, or Team Spirit are common ways coaches highlight standout contributions. While each program may approach this differently, the underlying goal is usually the same: to honor players who made a meaningful impact. And […]
How to Handle Late Athletes with Empathy
When a Player Shows Up Late One morning, my team had an early game. We were scheduled to meet at 8:00 a.m. to warm up when I received a text from a parent saying they were stuck in traffic and would be about 30 minutes late. The player would arrive before game time, but not […]
Mid-Season Check-In for Coaches: Build Team Culture & Refocus Goals
When I coach, I often describe the season as a marathon, not a sprint. Over four or five months, and twenty to thirty games, progress doesn’t happen all at once. It builds day by day, through consistent effort. Ideally, that work culminates in a season everyone can feel proud of. For some teams, that means […]
Coaching the Reset
Mistakes are a constant in sports. The mistake itself is never the real issue, it’s how we respond to it that matters. Mentally tough athletes don’t fear mistakes; they expect them. They understand that being human means getting things wrong sometimes. What sets them apart is that they have a routine or a way to […]
How to Teach Young Athletes to Be Great Teammates
I recently met with the San Bruno 8U softball team for a team-building session focused on one important theme: being a good teammate and learning how to support one another. This group of girls has been playing together for a while, and they are incredibly talented. That’s exactly why this conversation mattered. Building strong teammate […]
Energy Givers vs. Energy Takers: A Simple Team Culture Shift That Wins Games
After a breakout win with outstanding performances from every player, my team was feeling on top of the world. They had just experienced something powerful: the realization that the energy they bring into a game can influence the outcome. Before the game, our team talk centered on the idea of being an energy giver versus […]
Confidence Bucket: A Simple Team Activity That Builds Confidence & Connection
Last weekend, my team was playing in a tournament, and confidence was the theme of our morning team meeting. We talked about how confidence isn’t something we are born with, it’s a skill that is built over time. Another theme our team had been exploring was connection. Connected teams are successful teams. I wanted to […]
Positive Coaching Alliance East Bay Youth Sports Symposium: Leadership & Empathy in Youth Coaching
Last weekend, I had the privilege of attending the East Bay Youth Sports Symposium hosted by the Positive Coaching Alliance. The free event welcomed youth sports coaches from across disciplines, and the diversity of the audience beautifully reflected the Bay Area itself. It was a fulfilling day of connection, learning, and shared purpose. The Keynote […]
Team Captain Expectations and Responsibilities: A Leadership Guide for Coaches
Every player who chooses to join a team steps into leadership. Simply signing up requires commitment, discipline, and a willingness to work toward something bigger than oneself, qualities that define a leader. While each athlete leads in their own way, Team Captains are entrusted with an elevated role. They are called to model integrity, accountability, […]